I have a weird question spinning in my mind from time to time : Which will you choose, between your family and your friends?
My choice is my family, and maybe that's the reason why my friends are lesser than everyone else in the world. We lose and we gain and we lose, that's what a dear friend of mine said. We will lose friends someday, and we will gain new friends in the other day. But family? they can never be replaced. You can't have new parents, new sister or new brother unless your parents give birth to them of course. What a friend do, your family can do too. You can share with them, and they would never betray you.
A girl that i know, she shared with me that she'll never tell her secrets to her mum, her parents or any of her family members. Here, i would like to give her some suggestions, there's a first time for everything, why not just share a very little secret of yours with your family? If he/she can't keep the secret, then just find another one to share with, it's not really hard to try to get along with family. A little secret of mine to tell, my sister do ask me to lend her some money when she really needs it, and i'll do the same to her when i need to. I guess after all that's what family is for, to share, to depend on, to care, to love, to be with.
It's not that i hate friends, i do have some friends, a few and i love them. Friends are important too. My friends, though they might be jackasses who like to shame you in front of the one you like, do something stupids on you, prank you, angry with you, ignore you, but those acts are because they care about you and for those people who i hate, who i ignore basically are people who i don't care, i don't help them even when fire's burning on them. Friends, we get along to them easily because friends are about same age as you, but the same age of physical don't mean that they are same age as you mentally. I do have maturity and childishness in my bones, but that doesn't mean that i can't get more friends. As long as i tried, i believe someday i can get true friends who will be by your side all the time.
Friends are temporary for a certain people, they wouldn't age with you forever and when you get to work, you'll know new friends and forgot about the past, at least that's me. But family, they will be by your side all the time. When you form a new family someday, you'll have more people to talk to, more people to care to, and they'll be with you until the death came to us.
Friends or family? When death ask you such a question, I wonder which side will you pick, friends or family to lose? Tough choice.